When a couple gets married and moves in together, they share a number of facets. They open a joint bank account. They sign up for various departmental stores cards. They buy insurance jointly. They make a number of investments together to look after their future. They register themselves for the best pension schemes. All of these decisions are made by their own free will and they enjoy sharing these financial facilities. Hence, if your spouse wants your mails to be segregated and tries ‘filtering’ the mails and letters, ensuring that they see it themselves before you or anyone, something could be amiss. There may come a situation when your spouse acts a bit weirdly and asks you to set up a mail box. They may start acting extremely possessive about their mails and letters. They may rush to the door when any courier or mail has come to your place. They may try and stop you from reading their mails and letters addressed to them. They may give vague and unreal reasons to hide their mails from you. This clearly shows that they are hiding something from you.
It is very likely that financial infidelity stems out of this behaviour. If your spouse starts acting this way and starts getting possessive about their financial letters, there can be several assumptions you can easily make. They may have used your credit card to make certain transactions they don’t want you to know about. They may have secretly used your debit card and withdrawn money from your account. Hence, the mails that they are hiding from you could be your credit or debit card statements. Your spouse may also have invested in any policy or scheme and they don’t want you to know about. They may have borrowed money from the bank or from a financer and they don’t want you to see the receipts or statements regarding the same. This behaviour affects the couple’s relationship as they feel that the other person is hiding something important from them. They may have valid reasons for doing so, but it doesn’t come off as something suspicious. It is also stupid on their part as it is obvious for you to sense that something is wrong. If you are acting in the same way in front of your spouse, you should see if they are getting affected by it. If they are, you should disclose whatever you were hiding from them. You may have to face an argument but it will mend your relations for the time to come.
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