It is an age-old custom of getting flowers to a person as a sign of saying sorry for the mistake you committed. Similarly, if your spouse has already done the damage of spending way too much money without your knowledge, they will act extra generous and affectionate towards you. You know your partner the best. You are absolutely well-versed with the way they behave in various situations. Hence, you can sense that something is wrong when they start getting over-generous. They may start buying you expensive gifts (much ironically!) and things you love the most. Whenever there is any mention about finances, they would get all the more sympathetic and act as if they are the only ones who understand you the most in the world. This may be a sign that they have been involved into something that they don’t want you to know about. They tend to act overly affectionate to make sure that you are in the best of your moods, at least when it comes to them. However, this may not stay for long. You should realise that someday your spouse is going to know what is wrong and there is going to be an issue about it. Moreover, they may get more furious if you have been acting generous with them to cover for it. So, instead of being extra nice to your spouse, always come out clean and confess about what you’ve done. This would let them realise that you have accepted your mistake.
Another sign of your spouse indulging in financial infidelity may be the way they talk about finances to a third person. You can best see this in functions and friendly gatherings. If your spouse has been doing something fishy, they would always misrepresent their (and your) financial conditions to others and glorify the status. It is not really a problem if this is subtle, but it usually ends up being way more animated and exaggerated. You know your financial condition fairly well and unlike others, you can sense it if your spouse has been exaggerating it. This should make you suspicious and you should always ask them if you smell something dubious. Thus, if you spouse starts acting way too generous than usual specially when it comes to money, or if they start lying about your finances to others, there may be a chance that you are becoming a victim of financial infidelity.
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